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Road to Myself 40: Remission
Annette MacGregor
It's been a while... okay, quite a while. But, rumors of my demise are greatly exaggerated.
Sneaky Milestones
Annette MacGregor
Time has a way of sneaking up on us, and we sometimes miss milestones that might otherwise be considered important...
Road to Myself 39: Twists and Turns
Annette MacGregor
Things last time sounded messed up. Well, they got worse, sorta.
Road to Myself 38: A Bump in the Road
Annette MacGregor
I've been around... off and on... But, there have been some bumps in the road.
Road to Myself 37: I'm Still Here
Annette MacGregor
No, as some of you may have noticed, I'm still around. Life continues along it's merry way, despite our expectations that something life changing has happened.
Road to Myself 36: Oops
Annette MacGregor
Okay, life goes on... And, it's sometimes the "little" things that get your attention and/or remind you of this.
Road to Myself 35: Almost There?
Annette MacGregor
Transition happened, I'm back at work. It's almost as if for the rest of the world, nothing happened. Why am I so surprised?
Road to Myself 34: Not so Fast!
Annette MacGregor
Not so fast, Batman! Okay, not Batman... I'm not a caped crusader, nor am I a man even...
Road to Myself 33: Another Milestone?
Annette MacGregor
You know, it can be disturbing when one visit's one's primary care doc, and gets referred for extra tests...
Road to Myself 32: To Err Is Human
Annette MacGregor
To err is human, to really foul up requires a human with access to a computer!
Thanks to the "Guest Reader"
Annette MacGregor
Erin provides a wonderful feature that lets readers post comments (virtually anonymously) on stories they've read, without having a login to the site.
Road to Myself 31: Moving Along
Annette MacGregor
Well, things seem to be looking up. If you read my last blog, you'll recal there were some stumbles. But, well, that's the blog.
Road to Myself 30: Mixed News
Annette MacGregor
The past few days have not been my best. About the only thing good to say (okay, maybe not only... but, you'll see...) is I lost a few pounds cause I wasn't eating much.
Road to Myself 29: Court Date
Annette MacGregor
Normally one would be a tad nervous about a court date. Why do I find myself anticipating it rather than nervous?
Road to Myself 28: Mythbusters
Annette MacGregor
I generally enjoy the Mythbuster's TV show... And, I don't know about any of you, but I know I've wondered about some of the things I've read in stories about transitions, hormones and the like. Some of them are repeated over and over in story after story. Other things, I see only now and again.
Road to Myself 27: Lurching Steps
Annette MacGregor
How do we define forward? Is it based on a long term goal? On a short term goal? What's the difference between lurching steps and smooth transitions? Why use terms like this?
Road to Myself 26: Bosses
Annette MacGregor
There comes a time, as we approach our transition that we have to tell our Bosses. Well, I reached that day, today. *sighs*
Road to Myself 25: Acceleration
Annette MacGregor
You know, there comes a time when things seem to happen REALLY FAST. It sometimes feels that way for me about now...
Road to Myself 24: Catching Up
Annette MacGregor
It's been a while, and a LOT has happened. I even posted another segment in my slowly developing serial. But, that's not the topic of this blog. Life HAS been interesting. Yes, I think that's the right term, interesting.
Hidden Gifts - 18
By: Annette MacGregor
An authorized story, based on the characters and environment of A New Style of Education by Karen Page.
HRC Corporate Equality Index (CEI) for 2012 (Trans Benefits)
by Annette MacGregor
HRC's published the 2012 edition of the CEI, and I'm happy to see that my employer is finally rated at 100%! :-) It's been 95% for the last several years (the hold up was trans benefits... They had them, but they were provided on a case-by-case basis despite the exclusion in insurance. The exclusion is no longer in the insurance policies and benefits are awesome!).
Can it possibly be?
Can it possibly be four (4) years ago that I signed up for an account here - so I could start posting my first story (Who Was I - and before any of you go look - it's filled with typos and other related errors). I thank the two ladies who convinced me to start writing and then start posting here.
Road to Myself 23: Another BIG Step
Annette MacGregor
Perphaps it's not so big a step, but it feels like one to me...
More Folks Read My Stuff Than I Thought
Annette MacGregor
I got a few very complimentary comments on my latest short story, and today I happened to notice that the read count had already broken 3,000. This got me wondering...
Road to Myself 22: Wait a Minute
Annette MacGregor
The past few weeks have seen some interesting occurrences. Mostly positive, but, you know what they say about "interesting times"...
The Dare
Annette MacGregor
It's not every day you have to prove your self to the other guys... It's even harder, when you're the runt. But, there were times, at the home, where the older boys got it in their heads that some of us had to do something to prove, yet again, that we deserved to hang around with them. Sighing, I knew that today was one of those days and they'd set an awful task. It was even worse than when we'd had to cross the junk yard and not get caught by the dog.
Comments on Older Posts
Did you know that people actually READ stories that were posted a long time ago?
Road to Myself 21: On the Road Again
Annette MacGregor
After only being on the road (with work) three weeks out of fifteen months it seems my luck has changed. All of August (except for the week of Vacation) was spent at a client in Pennsylvania. Now, I find myself commuting to the DC area. Working out of town has it's ups and downs!
Road to Myself 20: Mammography
Annette MacGregor
I've heard the stories. You know, the ones that go "you take your boobs and put them between two metal plates, and drop an anvil on them"... Funny, huh.
Road to Myself 19: Vacation '11
Annette MacGregor
Going on a family vacation - with outsiders who only know the OTHER you... Are there questions? Are there moments of awkwardness? What about vacationing in a state with no protections?
Road to Myself - 18: Friends
Annette MacGregor
Coming out to friends triggers so many emotions. When it has the potential to affect one’s kids as well, the fear side...
HH: Interlude-05
By: Annette MacGregor & Karen Page
Another mystery is how the students are selected and paired. Part of that process is a selection committee, whose membership includes the headmaster and the support staff. This Interlude doesn't address the entire mystery, but it does show some of the inner workings of the committee.
Road to Myself - 17: Lurches
Annette MacGregor
Is it a good thing to discover that you're NOT the trailblazer you thought you were? (Preparing to transition in the workplace.)
Road to Myself 16: Silver Lining
Annette MacGregor
Time doesn't stand still. Moving toward a transition, while still with ones family does contribute stresses. Sometimes these stresses can become more than a person can take, when combined with everything else going on.
As Time Goes By
By: Annette MacGregor
Perhaps things didn't happen the way the newspapers all claimed... Or not exactly that way.
Road to Myself - 15: A Tail of Two Pastors
Annette MacGregor
Having dinner with not one, but two pastors can be a tad nerve wracking. Now, imagine you're meeting one (who's known you for 20 years) as yourself, for the first time... And then imagine that you're meeting the other for the first time and he will be your pastor as you transition. Can we spell butterflies?
Road to Myself - 14: Meeting folks
Annette MacGregor
When one meets folks your daughter's friends and even Professors, it can be a bit stressful - at least it can, if one is still not sure whether you pass well or not.
Road to Myself - 13: Pastors?
Annette MacGregor
My church has been an important part of my life and the family has been in a single one for over 20 years now... Will I still be able to attend after transition?
Road to Myself - 12: You say WHAT?
Annette MacGregor
I thought my bras fit, okay... I was certainly not unhappy with the size.
Road to Myself - 11: Beyond Expectations
Annette MacGregor
When you expect to transition - before your kids are old enough to get married... What does this do to the Wedding ceremony?
Hidden Gifts - 17
By: Annette MacGregor
An authorized story, based on the characters and environment of A New Style of Education by Karen Page.
Road to Myself 10: Work? No way!
Annette MacGregor
The idea of coming out at work is one that fills me with much trepidation.
20 hours ago...
I didn't believe it.
Road to Myself - 9: Why Surprised?
Annette MacGregor
Okay, if I'd thought about it, I shouldn't have been surprised.
Road to Myself - 8: I'm Baaaack
Annette MacGregor
I'm baaack. Wait, you say you didn't know I was gone?
Road to Myself - 7: Outing
Annette MacGregor
What's the difference between outing yourself, intentionally, and being outed accidentally?
How Boys Get Made
I was chatting with my older daughter (who also has a quirky sense of humor)... And, the following came up in the conversation:
Your ovaries took a wrong left turn back in the second trimester. They're on their way back, but they got lost in this odd little testosterone-filled sack...
Then, she went on and explained how it happened:
Unpublishing some Stories
For what it's worth, I'll be taking down the "body" of several of my short stories in the next few weeks. They're the non-TG stories and I've another place I may be sharing them, and I'd prefer people NOT be able to find my work here (yet) when they read them (If anyone does).
Road to Myself 6 - Reality Strikes
Annette MacGregor
One doesn't choose one's family... They just are.


