OK, i have switched to my subbie persona for the purpose of this blog.

i used to think that i was a bonafide subbie, and then today i listened to someone say that they always thought that they were an abused subbie, but as it turned out as she got well, she found out that she was actually an abuser, and not even a subbie or a Dom. Hmmmm. She also said that she had learned how to not manipulate people in a negative way.

So, i thought that there was a Dom here for a while but this girl seems to have lost track of him. If anyone here knows a real (Male) Dom, not a pretender, would you please ask them if they will PM this girl?

This would not be for the purpose of a D/s relationship, or a spanking, though ... :). Who knows. It looks like you can get the kinky out of the scene, but you can't get the kink out of the kinky, or something like that.

khadijah