This is Big Closet: Top Shelf This is not any other website. I think that it would be good to remember that and that it is in poor style to discuss other websites on this site or to discuss this site on others, especially to gripe, complain, and be a general bitch about things.
I joined Big Closet almost 10 years ago because it offered me things that other sites didn't offer. Though I have stories on several sites I consider this home. I almost always post new stories here first and many stories are only on this site. It aims to be friendly and supportive and I appreciate that. If that is not what you are looking for, if you are just dying to criticize and demean other, I suggest finding somewhere else to go. It's a big internet and those places do exist.
I offer this suggestion, let's just not talk about other sites here. I for one would be happier.