Okay, its serious discussion time, but lets keep it friendly, okay?
Can a person change orientation?
I dont mean behaviour. You could be gayer than Elton John and Liberace combined, and still marry a woman because you think you're supposed to, or whatever.
I'm talking about who makes your heart go pitter-pat, who you do a double look at when they walk by. Can that part actually change?
Well, it sure seems like it for me. Growing up, I looked at girls, and while I had a lot of envy in my glances, there was definitely a sense of attraction too.
And I cant ever recall looking at a guy and thinking "yummy" or anything even close to that.
And yet, here I am, making my shaky way through a transition, and suddenly, I'm looking at guys in an entirely new light. And its scary as heck for me, considering my history.
So, can a person change their orientation? And if so, can I change mine back to being only interested in girls?