Interesting visit for a sonogram

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Just got back from a sonogram. I went to the new Kaiser West Side Hospital. They set my appointment for the third floor. I checked in as usual using my male ID and the reaction was admirable. I was wearing white Capris and an all in one top consisting of a black cami, trimmed in lace and an open front over shirt in a multicolor print. The lady doing the check in didn't blink and just checked me in. She then walked me back to the waiting area.

They do mammograms through the same doors. There was a woman talking with a hospital volunteer when I got there, they each said hi to me as I sat down. The volunteer left and a short time later, a young lady opened the doors, looked a two of us. Then looking at me, she asked, "Are you here for a mammogram?" It was the other lady. So I said, "No."

Made my day. She saw me as a woman.

The rest of the appointment was interesting. When they hadn't called me for my procedure fifteen minutes after the appointment time, I went back to the check in desk and told them. A different lady was there, and asked to see my Kaiser card,looked me up and again didn't blink because the computer identified me as male. She then called the technician who was scheduled to do my sonogram and discovered that they were over booked and had move my appointment to the first floor. She then escorted me two floors down, making conversation all the way. As we got there the technician was just coming out of the door and called my male name. She professionally smiled and took me back to the procedure room. As she did my sonogram she made conversation with me.

I'm loving Kaiser more and more. The more I deal with the staff, the better I like it.

Comments

Sorry to burst such a lovely bubble but...

Men do get mammograms, but are usually ordered to do so by their doctors rather than just 'preventative maintenance' in women.

Men are at risk of breast cancer too.

Dayna.

The lovely bubble...

...still exists. The point was that s/he was in femme mode and was treated as such. Whether men get mammograms or not is irrelevant here. Kaiser treated her as the female she prefers to present as and did it readily, not with any derision or destain.

It's great when an organization is that open-minded in their treatment of patients/customers.

Hugs,
Erica

All such places

Angharad's picture

should be sensitive to the needs of their patients and that includes respecting their choices of name and gender, to do anything else is unprofessional. It doesn't matter what they're there for either. If they're not, complain.

As for mammograms - not my favourite form of screening, a cross between being stretched on the rack while shutting your boobs in a door or drawer. Not nice.

Angharad

Even worse if one has implants

They have to add the extra step of 'teasing out' all material that is actual breast tissue so it can be squashed in a plate glass sandwich. It really adds insult to injury.

Mammograms in UK

Rhona McCloud's picture

One day you pick up the post to find "Congratulations on your 50th" birthday cards along with an appointment for a mammogram that makes you feel doubly old but undoubtably in the system as female.

Rhona McCloud