A few days ago, someone made the suggestion that if it would help the site run more efficiently that the tallies for hits could be eliminated. Erin mentioned that these tallies consume large amounts of computer capacity. Maybe we should discuss this more.
This is Erin's site. She has the most at stake. More importantly to us users, through her leadership, this site has survived. She knows more about what her customers want than anyone and has skillfully implemented and monitored.
I live about half a mile from what is called the “High Bridge” in St. Paul, MN. The high bridge has a well-deserved infamy as a suicide spot -- with seven people jumping from the deck of the bridge which is 160 feet above the Mississippi, during 2015.
The bridge has been closed for several months. They’re installing a nine-foot high barrier to cut down on the jumpers.
I’ve long suspected and only recently realized, that anyone who does things that are different than the way I live my life . . . is wrong.
It would be great if I could cut you a break and allow for variances depending on your individual circumstances, but that would prove foolhardy and dangerous for both of us.
Simply put – everything you do that is not something I would do, so should be terminated immediately before it’s too late.
In the future, you should add one simply step to your decision-making process.
In 2000 I voted for W. My tendencies are quite liberal, but he seemed much better than more Clinton years via gore. This week I was reminded why I thought so highly of W. when he said the following.
"Bullying and prejudice in our public life sets a national tone. It provides permission for cruelty and bigotry and compromises the moral education of children. The only way to pass along civic values is to first live up to them."
Recently I purchased an e-book -- From Man to Woman by Lindy Smith on Amazon. It was a compelling story marred by typos and some continuity issues, but still worth spending considerable time reading, EXCEPT it stopped in the middle of nowhere. From the way it was written, to that point, I would estimate several chapters were missing.
I will try my best not to be political, but I'm so disgusted I don't know what to do other than to suggest that you read a story I posted nine years ago.
Yesterday, during the discussion of the military ban on Transgender a person who was anti-ban spoke to a newscaster.
He said that he’d served in the military and didn’t believe that trans people were a problem. He said, “You’re either a man or a woman, and once you’ve completed the transformation your become one or the other. End of problem.”
Arghhhhhhh!
I wonder what percentage of our society believes that?
What is this utter fascination with a binary society?
I can't remember exactly when it was that I started writing TG fiction, but it must be coming up on twenty years ago (I removed fifteen stories from Storysite in 2003).
I sold another business and am now semi-retired which has dropped my income by two-thirds -- at least until I can get more consulting work.
We bought an old house (1906) and are doing extensive remodeling.
Although I have limited current resources for contributing money to BC, I am buying quite a lot of remodeling supplies on Amazon and using the link you provided. Yesterday's purchases included the kitchen sink! Hopefully, since our purchases are adding up to a large total, BC will receive a nice commission.
I love movies almost as much as I love books and reading.
This time of year the worthwhile available new movies are slim pickings.
I decided to review "TG" movies as rated by Rotten Tomatoes. I realize Rotten Tomatoes isn't always right, but the audience scores generally provide good direction. After reviewing this list I added about thirty movies to my Netflix queue.
I hope you find some value in this list of Rotten Tomatoes audience scores.
The following lists is in order of my personal opinion based on each person when they were, again in my opinion, at their peak. There are a least a few on the list who would challenge my firm beliefs about my sexual preference.
For example: Robert Redford in The Natural is . . . quite attractive.
Often TG fiction features characters who go to great lengths to establish that they are transsexual. They go through a huge amount of angst to prove, or at least to assert, that they are NOT GAY, and/or NOT A TRANSVESTITE.
Can anyone tell me why that is such a frequent theme?
We used a term in Catholic school to describe zealots. That was “holier than thou”. It seems sometimes that some authors want to express a “trannier than thou” attitude.
Erin has agreed to post my new story, The Girl Who Saved Aunt T’s, in Hatbox. Hatbox is one of the ways you can support this site. Make a contribution to Hatbox and Erin will send you a password allowing you access to a group of stories that have been set aside for this purpose.
After reading Erin's story and the comments my thoughts centered on the musical Lil Abner.
The lyrics to one of the songs are as poignant today as they were sixty years ago.
The Country's in the Very Best of Hands – Li'l Abner and Marryin' Sam
Them city folks and we-uns
Are pretty much alike
Though they ain't used to living in the sticks
We don't like stone or cement
But we is in agreement
When we get started talking politics
Last week I attended a large sales meeting. I had to hang my overcoat on the back of my chair. During the meeting, the person next to me rolled his chair over part of my coat and ripped it.
My grandmother often warned against "getting the big head."
She believed in humility and, of course, she was right.
Damned if I didn't go against her sage advice -- and grew a melon of above average size.
I've been able to order extra large wigs from Paula Young in the past, put they seemingly have stopped making them.
The searches I've made for extra large wigs have brought me to sketchy sites that appear to be selling poor quality products to desperate people for exorbitant prices.
According to Erin’s numbers about 8,000 unique visitors a day read at least one story on BC.
I’m going to assume that many, many BC users are frequent users and will guess that about 25,000 people read five to ten stories a month.
Those 25,000 readers are enjoying an immense service. About 1-3% of those are authors who also have the satisfaction of a great place to post their fiction.
I was watching the news last night on the local FOX affiliated station. Much to my surprise they were interviewing my cardiologist. He was explaining “broken heart syndrome” in connection with Debbie Reynolds' death.
Not too many years ago he had given me the same explanation. We were in his office going over my medical history, including my family’s health.
I had told him that my father had died in his sleep from a surprise heart attack. Less than a week later, my mother, who had not displayed any heart problems, died from a “heart attack.”
I had a few moments and downloaded a few books from Amazon.
It was a frustrating experience. Only one of the about dozen TG books I bought had a BC author. Her book was excellent. The others ranged from poor to really poor.
In 1849, it was written in the Polite Manual for Young Ladies:
“Novel-reading strengthens the passions, weakens the virtue, and diminishes the power of self-control. Multitudes may date their ruin from the commencement of this kind of reading; and many more, who have been rescued from the snare, will regret, to the end of their days, its influence on the early formation of their character. It is, too, a great waste of time. . .If you wish to become weak-headed, nervous, and good for nothing, read novels."
From time to time Big Closet writers become upset by comments -- or even lack of comments.
I just read about Angharad’s decision to cease writing for BC. She has been worn down by what she considers to be negative remarks. What’s negative and what isn’t, is her decision . . . as is how she reacts.
She has proven her character through her diligence to her craft. BC would be a much different place without her involvement. I hope she reconsiders and keeps writing for BC.
I've just completed a draft of a new story for Hatbox called "Aunt T's" and need beta readers.
The story involves the semi forced feminization of a late thirties male.
I need an unsullied eye to find those inconsistencies that invariably happen.
I don't get any of the Hatbox revenue . . . so consider any help you give me an ultimate gift to Erin. Hatbox usually attracts more subscriptions when new material is offered.
This story is a bit dark . . . but travels toward the sun.
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